MY GOALS

My personal bucket list

This is a list of goals I’ve worked on, some I’m currently working on, and others I hope to tackle in the future. I’ve added little notes to some of them... maybe they’ll inspire you to try something similar!

Run a half-marathon (in progress)

A disproportionate part of my self-esteem comes from running. Not because I’m fast - I'm not -, but because there's something empowering about seeing the hills I’ve passed, relying only on my own body. It gives me peace of mind.

My tips:

• Don’t underestimate the importance of having two different pairs of running shoes.
• You don’t have to run the whole time. Walk, take breaks, enjoy the moment... it’s not a race.
• If you’re planning to run for more than an hour, take water with you.

Updates:

• I ran my own unofficial half-marathon on a hill near my town. I nearly hit my limit, but it was such a rewarding experience. Now I’m looking forward to running an official race someday.


• Spring 2025: I took part in a 10 km race organized by Prague Pride. I set a personal speed record, but the pressure of watching everyone else pass me wasn’t worth it. Still loved it, though.

Change my name - oficially (finished)

I don’t like my first name. Choosing a new one felt important, not just because I wanted to be called something I actually like, but also because it carried a kind of spiritual weight for me.
I’m not saying you need to change your name just for the sake of it, but for me, it felt like reclaiming my identity and fully stepping into who I am.
Also, our local registry office did it for free, which was a nice.

My tips:

• In most countries, you can only change your name once. So keep that in mind.

Create a personal blog (finished)

It’s probably not something I would’ve come up with if I didn’t already have some experience with coding and programming. But here I am, enjoying it.

Make my own tarot deck (in progress)

I love tarot. Don't get me wrong, I'm not into fortune-telling. For me, tarot is all about introspection and looking at situations from new angles. It pushes you to ask good questions and connect deeply with the 78 archetypes the cards represent. (Not gonna lie, I also just love the vibes.)

Aside from the idea of having my own artistic deck, I have to admit it’s been a real challenge. Creating 78 drawings is no small task, and it’s definitely pushed me to get creative and keep practicing.

My tips:

• If you’re just starting out with drawing, take your time to discover your own art style. It took me a while to find mine, and even though others didn’t really like it, I knew it felt true to me. And that’s enough.

Updates:

• 1/4 finished

Write a book (in progress)

This is a goal where my perfectionism really gets in the way.

Sew a piece of clothing

So far, I’ve only made a few tote bags and experimented a bit. My plan is to start with sewing an oversized shirt from some nice fabric.

Become a polyglot (in progress)

I gotta admit, this is a relic from my childhood. I used to admire anyone who spoke six or more languages, and I wanted to be like them.

Right now, I speak two foreign languages at a level I’m happy with (English and Russian). But I’d love to reach at least an intermediate level in German, Polish, and one more language.

My tips:

• Don’t. Two languages are usually more than enough.
• It’s naive to think you’ll be equally good at all your languages or in every skill (reading, listening, speaking...). Think about what your goal really is. For me, reading well is the priority, so speaking and writing perfectly aren’t as important.

Make a piece of pottery

Draw a comics

Knit a sweater

Make my own book of shadows

Make a song

Dark therapy

Join a tea workshop

Please note: I'm not a mental health professional. I'm simply sharing my personal experiences and ideas. If you're struggling or need support, I encourage you to reach out to a qualified professional.